Learning to Let Go: Surrendering Control and Trusting Your Highest Good
What if letting go of control is the very thing that allows more ease, joy, and trust to show up in your life? In this episode of the Wild Enthusiasm for Living podcast, I explore the ongoing, very human practice of surrendering control and trusting something greater than what we can see or plan. This conversation was inspired by a recent experience watching my son compete in his first gymnastics meets, and the deep awareness it gave me about how quickly I go into gripping outcomes, projecting fears, and trying to manage results in the name of love, safety, and protection.
I talk about how control often creates anxiety and stress, even when our intentions are good, and how surrender can feel unsafe to the nervous system because it asks us to trust beyond what we can logically predict. I share what shifted for me when I stopped asking for a specific outcome and instead began asking for whatever was for the highest good, and how that simple change created more ease for me and more growth, confidence, and self-awareness for my son.
This episode weaves together themes of manifestation, parenting, leadership, healing, and spiritual trust, and clarifies the difference between surrender and giving up. Surrender is not passivity or doing nothing; it is an active choice to stay present, engaged, and open without gripping so tightly that we block growth, support, and possibility. I also talk about how our so-called failures or disappointments often become the very moments that change the trajectory of our lives in ways we couldnā€™t have planned.
If you find yourself trying to control outcomes, timelines, or other people in order to feel safe, this episode is an invitation to soften your grip, breathe, and trust that something greater may be unfolding. What would your life be like if you could show up fully, take action, and still allow space for the universe to meet you halfway?
